I just received my permit this past week, 40 days in sussex county. Yesterday was our anniversary so we went out to dinner, went to a couple of jewelry stores and then caught some live music. I had been told that the first time you carry you might feel like a criminal. Nope, didn't happen. At one point in the restaurant, I thought I saw the manager looking my way, no problems though. My wife had a couple of glasses of wine. She had asked if I was gonna have a beer, I said no. It took her a few minutes to realize why! Had a great night. Glad I felt "normal", not the way some had described it.